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This leaflet is about protecting your rights and stopping abuse. It is for adults who are aged 18 and over.

Abuse can happen anywhere, at any time and be caused by anyone.

Always remember abuse is always wrong.

An adult at risk is anyone aged 18 or over who, because of illness, disability, age, or dependence (whether emotional, financial or other) is unable to take care of themselves, or to be cared for adequately by others. An adult at risk may be unable to protect themselves from abuse or exploitation.

You may be at more risk if you are:

  • older and frail
  • have learning difficulties
  • have mental health problems
  • are dependent on alcohol and substances
  • have language barriers

  • Abuse is what happens if someone does or says something to you which may make you feel scared or upset.
  • Abuse is when someone tries to take your rights away.
  • Abuse is if someone does something to you even if you tell them to stop.

You may feel too scared to ask an abuser to stop; you may feel that no-one will believe you. Any abuse is wrong.

  • Physical abuse – Hitting, pushing, kicking, shaking, burning, too much or not enough medication.
  • Emotional abuse – Threats, name-calling, ignoring you, shouting at you, not involving you in decision making about you, isolating you from friends, family and services.
  • Sexual abuse – Touching you when you do not want to be touched, unwanted sexual intercourse or any sexual activity that you do not or cannot give your consent to, being made to watch sexually explicit films.
  • Sexual exploitation – Involves exploitative situations, contexts and relationships where a victim receives ‘something’ (e.g. food, accommodation, drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, affection, gifts, money) as a result of them performing, and/or another or others performing on them, sexual activities.
  • Modern Slavery – Includes human trafficking and forced labour.
  • Financial or material abuse – Stealing your money or possessions, using your money to buy things for themselves, telling you that you do not have a choice in how you spend your money.
  • Neglect – Not giving medication, or giving you too much, not allowing you to visit the doctor. Not allowing you to have the heating on if you are cold, not giving you clean clothes or food or drinks when you are hungry or thirsty.
  • Self Neglect – Is when an adult declines essential support with their care and support needs, and this is having a substantial impact on their overall wellbeing.
  • Discrimination – You are treated differently or unfairly because of the colour of your skin, religious beliefs or practices, gender, age, disability, sexual preferences or because of language barriers.
  • Institutional – This may occur if you are a resident in a care home, a patient in a hospital or if you attend a day centre. It could mean that you are not being treated with dignity and respect.
  • Domestic violence – This is any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between adults aged 18 or over, who are, or have been, intimate partners or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality. It may include psychological, physical, sexual, financial, emotional or cultural violence.

Anyone can be an abuser.

It could be:

  • A partner or a member of your family, a friend or neighbour
  • A member of staff or carer
  • Another adult at risk
  • A stranger
  • It could be more than one person

It is important to point out that most people will not want to abuse you, and that most people will want to support you.

Abuse can be:

  • Something that happens once
  • Something that happens repeatedly
  • A deliberate act
  • Something that was unintentional, perhaps due to a lack of understanding
  • A crime

Unfortunately, abuse can happen anywhere, and at any time. It could take place:

  • In your home
  • In hospital, at a day centre, residential home or college
  • At a friend’s, family member’s or partner’s house
  • On public transport
  • At a place where you socialise
  • In any street or public place

Abuse is never okay. If you are being abused it is not your fault, and you do not deserve it.

  • You have the right to live your life free of abuse and to be treated with dignity and respect.
  • You have the right to make choices about your life, and to be involved in decision making about things that affect you.
  • These rights are yours, whether you live at home, in a care home, or in a hospital.
  • You have a right to be listened to and to be supported if you feel you are experiencing abuse or that you are at risk of abuse.

 

We understand that it is difficult to know what to do in this situation, but our advice will always be to tell someone you trust and tell them as soon as you can.

You could tell a friend, a family member, your partner, a nurse or key worker, a doctor. You could also contact official authorities like Social Services or the police.

We will:

  • listen carefully, support you and take any information you give us seriously.
  • record your worries and concerns, using the words that you said.
  • inform the official authority on your behalf or help you to make the initial contact.
  • take every step possible to ensure you are safe and free of harm.

We can not keep any information secret that a person is being, or is at risk of being abused.

  • They will listen to your concerns and record them.
  • They will take every step to ensure that you are safe and that you are not being treated differently because you have reported that you are being abused.
  • They may meet with professionals involved in your care, and identify a plan to keep you safe. You would be invited to attend that meeting, with an advocate or a trusted friend. If you are not able to attend, a member of staff will be identified to meet with you and explain what happened at the meeting.
  • They will not tolerate abuse.
  • They may prosecute the alleged abuser, or try to get that person support.

 

If you or someone you know is being abused or is at risk of abuse, it is important that you tell someone immediately.

  • In an emergency ring 999
  • Contact a member of Cumbria, Northumberland, Tyne and Wear NHS Foundation Trust staff. This could be your: Care Co-ordinator, Named Nurse, Consultant Psychiatrist, Psychologist, Occupational Therapist or anyone that you trust.
  • Local authority - pick the number for the local authority in your area:
    Allerdale, Carlisle and Copeland – 0300 373 3732; Out of hours: 01228 273 800
    Eden – 0300 373 3301; Out of hours: 01539 768 700
    Newcastle – 0191 278 8377
    Gateshead – 0191 433 7033
    North Tyneside – 0191 643 2777
    South Tyneside – 0191 424 6000
    Northumberland – 01670 536 400
    Sunderland – 0191 5205 552
  • Police Non Emergency Number – Tel: 101
  • Protecting Adults at Risk Unit – Tel: 101​​​​​​​
  • Victims Information Service – Tel: 0808 168 9293

  • Safeguarding Adults at Risk Policy – Vo6 – Aug 24 CNTW(C)24
  • Abuse – Information for adults physically, emotionally or sexually abused as children. Dr Lesley Maunder and Lorna Cameron, 2011

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Patient Advice and Liaison Service (PALS)
PALS provide confidential advice and support, helping you to sort out any concerns that you may have about any aspect of your or your loved one's care.

We act independently when handling patient and family concerns, liaising with staff, managers and, where appropriate, relevant organisations, to negotiate prompt solutions. If necessary, we can also refer patients and families to specific local or national-based support agencies.

North of Tyne
Telephone: 0800 032 0202
Email: pals@nhct.nhs.uk
Post: FREEPOST PALS

South of Tyne
Telephone: 0800 328 4397
Text: 07825 061 035
Email: pals@cntw.nhs.uk
Post: Patient Advice and Liaison Service, Garden Lodge, Hopewood Park, Ryhope, Sunderland, SR2 0NB

9.00am – 4.30pm, Monday to Friday
An answerphone is available at all times for you to leave a message. A member of the PALS team will aim to return your call as soon as possible.

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